Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Myself viewed through your binoculars!


If you are an Aquarian, or you live with an Aquarian, you probably know the characteristics and traits of someone born under the sign of the Water Bearer. If you were born between January 21 and February 20, you are an Aquarian. Aquarians are ruled by the planets Saturn and Uranus and the element of Air. The sign of Aquarius is shared by a diverse group of celebrities and historical figures: Abraham Lincoln, Gene Hackman, Yoko Ono, Nathan Lane, Paul Newman, Oprah Winfrey, Garth Brooks, Thomas Edison, Michael Jordan, Justin Timberlake, Clark Gable, John McEnroe, Charles Darwin, Wolfgang Mozart, and John Travolta, to name a few. Aquarians are fiercely independent, ambitious souls, with high ideals. Aquarians like to stay abreast of the latest information and knowledge and love to express themselves through art, writing, and creative endeavors. They are logical creatures who love to figure out how things work, and they are likely to stand apart from a situation and observe the details and environment; able to set themselves apart from the action and make cool, calm observations. While tradition may seem at odds with the Aquarian zodiac and horoscope, Aquarians can actually be adventurous trailblazers and still honor family, patriotic or cultural traditions with fervor and passion. In fact, because Aquarians are sensitive at their core, their inability to express emotions like fear, need or hurt can sometimes translate into anger or cynicism. So, it is important for Aquarians to try to find a way to express their needs and feelings in a constructive way, in order to avoid damage to personal relationships.Your Aquarian spouse, friend or family member may, at times, seem like someone from another planet, yet the truth of the matter is that Aquarians are usually just ahead of their time in their beliefs and opinions. If you are born under the sign of Aquarius it is probably difficult for you to express your deepest feelings. You are first and foremost a thinker! Aquarians are unpredictable, sensitive, passionate and loyal, and they hate to be held to a clock or to have to explain what they are doing or where they are going! Freedom is paramount to an Aquarian, so if you enter into an intimate relationship with someone born under the zodiac sign of Aquarius, you must be prepared to give your mate freedom and independence if you want your relationship to succeed. It is important for an Aquarian to have personal freedom and the space to do what is important to them, and to explore their world.

Myself under your microscope!

Inconsistency and confusion describe the characteristics profile of an Aquarius female(:-/). The same goes for her love life too. She is very loyal, but at the same time, she is also a little detached and not extremely emotional. She will be committed and remain faithful too, but do not try to bind her. Let her enjoy her freedom and in return, she will come back to you when she gets tired of her expeditions. Her dreams are very different from that of a normal female and she hums a different tune, which most of us have not even heard of. An Aquarian female is like a butterfly, which sits on every flower, but belongs to none. She loves her freedom and if you can accept this, she will love you even more. Within her boundless limits, her love will also be limitless. Position and power matter to her more than money and bank balance. If you want her to fall in love with you, be true and honest, not only to others, but also to yourself (is it so hard?). You don't need to follow her rules. You can form your own code of ethics, but be sure to live by them. Passion is not one of the personality traits of Aquarian girl. Rather, her love will be subtle and unassuming. She is intense, but may prefer to be platonic most of the time. Hosting as well as attending parties comes naturally to her and she will always be a social delight. She will trust you completely and will not be unduly suspicious of your activities. You will also not be bothered by too much jealousy or possessiveness on her part. Her trust arises from the fact that before committing, she had dissected your behavior under a microscope (that's where noboy's yet ticked!?!). Only after being convinced of your integrity did she take the next step. Still, if you become unfaithful to her, she will be extremely hurt and is likely to remember the wound for a long time. With an Aquarian female, out of sight means out of mind too. So, make sure to be around here always. She has a very strong will power. If she thinks the relationship is not working and has no chances of improving also, she will break it right away; though doing so may tear her heart into two pieces(may be!). Like every Aquarian, she will remember her first love throughout her life(whozzat?!). It's no use getting upset, better be the first love in her life. She will never ever be dishonest in a relationship and even if she indulges in an extra-marital affair, it will end before it even started. She will always try to know your deepest thoughts and secrets, but her own dreams will be beyond your reach. Conversing with an Aquarian female is usually a delight because of her charming manners(isnt it?). Her mind is quite unpredictable and you will find it hard keeping track. She will live in the present, then suddenly be wistful about yesterday and then, become enthusiastic about tomorrow. She may talk about fairies one day and discard elves as humbug, the other. Never look down on her or she might never look upto you. She respects you and will expect the same in return. As mothers, Aquarian women tend to be very loving and caring. Though in the beginning, they may be a little nervous about the whole idea of motherhood. But once they become comfortable with it, it will come to them naturally. An Aquarius female may find it difficult to express her love in the form of hugs and kisses and you will have to teach her that. She will never overburden the kids with protection.At the same time, she will always be a patient listener to their childhood and adolescent problems. Teaching them discipline will also be your responsibility. However, for all this to happen you will have to convince her to get married and this certainly isn't an easy job. You will also have to teach her romance, since expressing emotions does not come too easily to her. She will happily hold your hand and walk besides you, but don't expect her to gaze into your eyes for hours at a stretch(hahaha!). Don't smother your Aquarian girl with too much closeness, she needs her space and will give you, yours too. Things like suspicion, possessiveness, chauvinism and criticism turn her off. Just be nice to her odd bunch of friends and she will warmly welcome yours into the house. Make use of her intuition and insight, it may help you in solving a problem or two(yeap!). It may seem like wishful thinking now, but then, remember she looks in the future. Hold her hand and she will let you see the future too, where both of you are cozily living together(say cheese...)!